In a world where social dining is often the norm, one TikToker, @doskoi92, has captured the internet’s attention by breaking this unspoken rule.
In a 16-second video, he showcased his solo adventure at Pak John steamboat eatery, indulging in an array of buffet offerings typically shared among several people. His feast included beef, lamb, chicken, prawns, crabs, and more, all for himself.
A feast for one
However, it’s not just the visual feast that has drawn nearly 300,000 views on TikTok.
The video’s caption adds an unexpected twist, turning a seemingly lonely dining experience into a humorous and relatable moment.
Self-promo for “the one”
Addressing an unknown person who filmed him eating alone, @doskoi92 lists an eclectic set of personal traits and desires in a style reminiscent of a dating profile:
“For the person who took a video of me eating alone at Pak John just now on 11 December 2023, at 3.30pm, if you want to post it, please make sure to include this; I’m single, introvert, I don’t smoke, a good cook, loving, I wish to have 10 kids, I once got drowned but I survived.”
Self-reward and therapeutic solitude
In a revealing interview, TikToker @doskoi92 told WeirdKaya the reason he visited Pak John Steamboat was personal celebration for completing his final paper for his degree.
He often dines alone, not due to a lack of friends, but because he finds solitude therapeutic. Preferring not to rush his meals, he enjoys the peace that comes with dining solo.
Message to those who feel self-conscious
Addressing those who might feel uncomfortable eating alone, @doskoi92 encourages embracing individuality.
I believe that there’s a whole lot more people like me. For some people, they might feel overwhelmed eating alone but for some people like me “we” just don’t actually care about what people would say or might say.
He believes many share his perspective of indifference to public opinion. He urges people to not be overwhelmed by perceived judgment and to enjoy their own company, stressing that eating alone is not a sign of being a “loser,” but a personal choice.
For those who think eating alone is a “loser” behaviour, well, it’s not. Some people just prefer being on their own. Please don’t feel sorry for us as we are happy eating out alone and doing other things alone.
Embracing introversion
@doskoi92 identifies as an introvert, finding that being around people for extended periods drains his social battery.
This preference for solitude extends beyond dining; he has always enjoyed activities like watching movies and hiking alone. He assures that his solo adventures have never made him feel bad or out of place.
Addressing his viral video and privacy concerns
While he seems to be promoting himself in the video, @doskoi92 clarifies that he is not actively seeking a partner or relationship.
He also addresses the person who recorded him without consent, stating he isn’t upset but emphasises that recording people without their permission is inappropriate.
For the one who recorded me, well, I’m not mad. That’s why I mentioned in my video, ‘if you want to post it, please include the list.’ However, I still think it’s improper to record people without their consent.
‘Don’t worry about others’ judgement’
This blend of vulnerability and humour has resonated with many netizens.
While the video initially evokes a sense of solitude, the caption’s playful tone transforms it, highlighting the TikToker’s unique personality and perhaps his approach to finding love.
Comments on the post reveal a sense of camaraderie among viewers, with many relating to the experience of dining alone and applauding @doskoi92’s openness and self-humour.
You can watch the full clip here:
Thumbs up for minding his own business! But one question, would you eat steamboat buffet alone? Let us know in the comments!
