Recently, a woman using the pseudonym ‘anon’ stirred up discussion on platform X by sharing advice for those contemplating divorce.
Her approach, however, triggered a wave of criticism from users due to its controversial nature.
In her revelation, she disclosed being in a sexless marriage for over a decade and foresaw her husband’s inclination towards seeking another partner.
“A decade of no intimacy. I can see him searching for someone new,” she expressed.
‘I control 100% of his salary’
Her solution? Taking complete control of her husband’s salary with his consent.
Moreover, she managed all finances, leaving her husband with only a discretionary allowance while keeping tabs on all their assets.
“I control 100% of his salary. He trusts me. I only give him the necessary spending money. I know all of his assets.”
Additionally, she persuaded her husband to transfer the house to her and their child, which he agreed to, citing their good relationship and his love for their child as facilitating factors.
“I told him to transfer the house to our child, and he agreed. He’s quite naive and really loves our child, so it was easy here.”
Furthermore, she advised building a strong bond with their child from birth, ensuring favouritism towards herself in the event of a divorce.
She stressed spending ample time at home with the child until they reached adulthood.
“As for the child, I make sure they’re on my side. I spend more time at home, so the child has been close to me since birth until now that they’re working.”
‘No regrets, I was a bloody good wife’
She confidently stated that if rumours of her husband’s desire for remarriage surfaced, she would promptly evict him from the house, facilitated by the property transfer. Only then, she asserted, would the divorce proceedings commence.
With property and custody secured, she claimed to be free from any lingering thoughts of her ex-husband and expressed no regrets about her actions.
She concluded with: “No regrets. I was a bloody good wife, and I deserve to be happy.”
‘The tables will turn and karma is real’
Predictably, her revelation garnered widespread attention, eliciting predominantly negative reactions from netizens.
One commenter expressed anger towards her, accusing her of manipulating her ex-husband and branding her actions as malevolent.
“As a woman, I read this with anger towards you, anon. The way you wrote your confession makes me feel that the ‘sexless marriage’ part (the main reason your ex sought another partner) is your fault or that you refused to compromise. You’ve mentally manipulated your ex-husband, and that’s such a malicious action.
You’re evil, anon. I hope your ex-husband’s future partner comes from a good family and can accept him as he is. Let him start anew with someone who isn’t as manipulative as you.”
Another warned of future repercussions, invoking the concept of karma.
“The tables will turn. Time will tell. Don’t be too happy. There will be consequences later. Karma is real, okay.”
Yet another questioned her self-proclaimed status as a “good wife,” casting doubt on her character.
“I was a bloody good wife.” Doesn’t sound like it, babe.”
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