In a recent online buzz, a student shared a relatable problem anonymously: his friends often catch a lift in his car but don’t pitch in for gas. This sparked a virtual discussion with others chiming in with thoughts and solutions.
He quietly asked the online world, “For those of you driving to college, do your buddies help with gas money?”
Small amount means a lot
He’s in a spot because asking friends for money makes him uncomfortable, especially when his dad’s advice echoes in his mind: “Don’t ask for gas money unless they offer it.”
He admits he’d really appreciate it if his friends gave even a small amount towards gas now and then. Yet, that’s not happening.
The unspoken rule of sharing rides
His post got a lot of attention. Some online folks agreed with his frustration, while some questioned whether he was really okay with the arrangement or just avoiding confrontation.
People shared their own stories.
“A car runs on petrol, not on friendship.”
Another advised, “If you genuinely want to help out your friends, don’t worry about the money. But if it bothers you, it’s okay to ask them for gas money.”
Others talked about how they handle similar situations.
One person came up with a creative idea: put a “Gas Money Jar” in the car where friends can drop in cash if they want to.
Some pointed out that it’s about being aware.
“Students might not think about these things because they’ve always had their parents’ help. So sometimes you need to tell them, because they might not know.”
This student’s story highlights a common situation many face: balancing kindness with practical needs.
It shows that sometimes, you need to have those awkward talks to keep things fair and friendly.
