Malaysian actress Adrea Abdul sparked a conversation about the extravagance of primary school graduation ceremonies held in luxury hotels, questioning the necessity of such lavish celebrations and the accompanying high fees.
In a TikTok video (@adreaabdul), Adrea sheds light on the financial burden placed on parents for their children’s graduation events, with fees soaring as high as RM200 per student, excluding additional charges for parents’ attendance.
“Do you notice the trend now where many schools host graduation dinners or lunches at 5-star hotels, and parents are compelled to pay RM150-200 to allow their kids to join?”
Slams schools for not being considerate for parents
The video, which quickly gained attention, features Adrea’s frustration over the pressure parents face, particularly when reminded of outstanding payments in WhatsApp groups. She challenges the rationale behind such extravagant venues, implying that they serve more as a status symbol for schools rather than enhancing the students’ experience.
“Furthermore, if the parents decide to attend, they will need to pay an additional RM150 per person. It’s peculiar to not join as it will considered odd.”
Adrea emphasizes the financial strain on families, especially those with multiple children or other commitments, pointing out the absurdity of expecting parents to spend RM2,500 for five children.
“Does the school know that some parents may face financial difficulties or have many kids, and such ceremonies can impose a significant financial burden on them?”
‘Emotional blackmail’
She condemns this practice as a form of emotional blackmail, calling for more consideration from school principals in choosing graduation venues and urging the Ministry of Education to intervene.
“Why can’t they host it at community halls, which are more affordable? Schools should consider being more creative in fundraising if they want to organize something nice for their graduation ceremony.”
Adrea’s candid remarks in her video resonate with many parents grappling with the rising costs of school-related events and the societal pressures associated with them.
