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‘I’m So Fed Up’ – 18yo M’sian Man Regrets Marriage After Constant Clashes With Wife & Family

It’s only been 7 months since they got married.
Marriage is often seen as a union built on love, trust, and compromise, but for one 18-year-old Malaysian man, it has become a daily struggle filled with regret.

In a confession shared anonymously on the X platform via @meinmokhtar’s page, the young man revealed his disheartening experience after marrying his wife, also 18.

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The couple, who tied the knot seven months ago to “avoid sin,” has since faced relentless arguments and escalating family tensions.

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Couple wearing rings
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“I’m So Fed Up”

According to the post, the man described how his wife often clashed with his family, even resorting to reporting issues to her parents.

This led to a heated confrontation where her father came to his house to insult and berate his family.

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Feeling the strain, the couple decided to separate temporarily, with each staying with their respective families for the past two months.

Communication between them has dwindled to essential calls only. “I regret it, bro,” he concluded.

Couple arguing
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Netizens Offer Mixed Reactions

The confession sparked a wave of reactions online, with many netizens sharing advice and cautionary tales.

While some empathised with the couple’s struggles, others highlighted the challenges of marrying young.

One user wrote:
“They’re still young and need to learn better communication skills. Stop involving families and posting everything online. Try to remember the good times when you were dating—go out on dates again.”

Netizen comment 1 (35)
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Others provided constructive advice, like setting shared goals:
“You’re young. I suggest you both set a target to achieve together. That way, you’ll build teamwork, and your relationship will improve.”

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However, not all comments were optimistic.

One netizen shared a cautionary tale:
“I know someone whose parents allowed them to marry young, hoping it would make them mature. It was the same situation as this confession—they had a child but divorced shortly after. Now, the child suffers, being passed back and forth while the parents have both remarried. The child is already showing signs of mental instability.”

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