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[VIDEO] Girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am

"I’m still living in fear hoping that she won’t hurt me."

TRIGGER WARNING
The content below contains sexual harassment experiences that may be harmful or traumatizing for some.


Following the #MeToo movement and the sexual harassment incident at Maluri LRT Station lately, a Malaysian woman, who preferred to be known as Lee, posted on her RED (小红书) about her experience of being molested at Glenmarie LRT Station back in 2017.

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The incident occurred during regular working hours, as the victim was commuting via the escalator.

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[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

Suddenly, a random stranger inappropriately touched her buttock from behind, leaving her in shock and terror.

Lee screamed in fright and tears, demanding an explanation for his actions, but he simply dismissed her, denying any wrongdoing.

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Helpless

What made the situation, even more, disheartening was that, despite being surrounded by numerous onlookers, nobody intervened or offered help.

Lee felt utterly helpless and vulnerable at that moment. Eventually, a compassionate Malay girl approached her and inquired about the situation.

The victim confided in her, revealing the harassment she had endured. To the victim’s disbelief, the harasser boldly justified his actions, attributing it to her slow pace on the escalator.

The man arrogantly said he pushed me because I was slow. He admitted touching me.”

Flee the Scene

In an attempt to collect evidence, the victim took out her phone to film the harasser, causing him to flee hastily.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

Determined to seek justice, she chased him through the LRT station, crying and searching for him in every carriage, only to be met with curious and judgmental gazes from the other passengers.

Ultimately, unable to find the perpetrator, the victim experienced an emotional breakdown. However, amidst the callous crowd, a few kind individuals offered her a seat and tissues, yet nobody inquired about her well-being or what had transpired.

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It was only after mustering the courage to reach out to RapidKL’s customer service for CCTV footage that she realized the escalator cameras did not capture the incident.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

Instead, the footage revealed the harasser passing through the LRT station and escaping to the opposite parking lot via a pedestrian bridge.

“It is common”

Upon contacting her mother and explaining the situation to her employer about the delay, she was startled by their reactions.

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Both of them nonchalantly dismissed the incident as something ordinary, stating that they had also experienced similar harassment in the past.

Following this, a self-proclaimed policeman contacted her, acknowledging the report lodged by RapidKL after her request to them.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

The decision to lodge a formal police report was said to be entirely up to her when she asked the policeman about it.

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Conflicted and perhaps influenced by her mother’s and supervisor’s experiences, the victim chose not to report the incident to the authorities, a decision she deeply regrets now.

Speaking to WeirdKaya, she said that her post aims to help and let girls know who to contact when such incidents happen in the future.

They should lodge a police report and not just keep quiet like me. I feel sorry for myself over the years.”

#MeToo

In the comment section, besides many netizens supporting and feeling pity for Lee’s encounter. Some other victims voiced out their similar experiences too.

One said she was also touched by a foreign worker but was a bit late in reaction to catch the suspect red-handed due to shock.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

Another victim who was also disheartened after being told that such incidents are common shared how her chest was stared at and her buttock was bumped into a stranger’s private part.

My mother told me it’s normal, all of them experienced it. … … I don’t understand why females have to keep quiet when they were offended like this. … …They said it’s just small movements, not considered sexual harassment.”

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

One victim shared how she was traumatised and dare not take a public bus anymore after a random old man held her hands at 2 am out of a sudden. Similarly, her ex-boyfriend’s mother said she was overreacting.

“It is normal. How are you going to survive in this society if you cannot handle it?”

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

Another girl said a foreign worker pinched her buttock at a monorail station. She expressed how clueless and helpless she was at the moment and still does not know what to do if such cases occur again.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Screenshot via RED

All in all, to all sexual harassment victims out there, you are not alone and it is not wrong or abnormal to feel uncomfortable with such experiences. Please seek professional help when you need it.

**WeirdKaya would like to thank Lee for the willingness to share her experience for raising awareness.

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PETALING JAYA – A netizen was left with a red and swollen cheek after she was slapped by her housemate for preparing food at 5 am on Sunday (Mar 6) prior to a hiking trip.

In a lengthy Facebook post, Vestene Wong began by saying that she is currently living in a rented room with three housemates.

On the day of the hike, she woke up to prepare some food in the kitchen. Less than 10 minutes later, her housemate angrily stormed out of her room and suddenly landed a slap right across her face, leaving her in shock.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Photo via Facebook

She then went on to reveal the reasons why she was assaulted by her housemate.

The reason was because I woke her up. She also shouted at me with foul language and questioned me why did I not carry my stove to the living room to cook.

“At that moment, I was shocked because I thought that was a common area, anyone could use it anytime and it was my first time using the kitchen this early. In fact, I double confirmed with my landlord that there’s no curfew on using the common area,” she wrote.

To add insult to injury, Vestene’s housemate even threatened to sue her for emotional distress and claimed that she could get away scot-free even if a police report was to be filed.

‘Sorry not sorry’

Despite the threat, Vestene proceeded to lodge a police report for assault and her housemate was summoned to the police station to prove that she was suffering from mental illness.

“When the sergeant asked if she had a card to validate her mental illness, she told us it was mild anxiety and there was no card to verify her mental illness.

The police demanded her to apologise and so she did by saying, ‘I am willing to apologise but for you to acknowledge my apologies is another story…Yes I’m wrong but she’s also not considerate at all.

Not wanting to waste any more time on the issue, Vestene decided to drop it even though she felt that the apology was insincere.

However, she said that she’s still fearful over her safety but is forced to stay until the end of her tenancy.

“I can’t believe it’s 2022 and this kind of thing still happened. I’m still living in fear hoping that she won’t hurt me.”

Unbelievable! 

The post, which has since garnered 8.3k reactions, 5.1k comments and 9.1k shares at the time of writing, also attracted strong condemnation from netizens.

Many found that the housemate’s reaction towards Vestene was extremely ridiculous and urged for her justice.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Photo via Facebook

Some were impressed that the landlord had the foresight to install a CCTV in the kitchen.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Photo via Facebook

Others slammed Vestene’s housemate for her actions, saying that no one has the right to assault people even if they had mental issues.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Photo via Facebook

On the other hand, some defended the housemate and said that Vestene was wrong to disturb her sleep early in the morning.

[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
(You deserve it for cooking in the kitchen at 5 am)
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
(it is not right to slap others but you cook so early…)
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
[video] girl slapped by housemate for cooking food at 5am | weirdkaya
Photo via Facebook

Watch the video here.

Have you met such unreasonable housemates before? Share your story with us in the comments!

**WeirdKaya has reached out to Vestene for further comment but has yet to receive a reply as of publishing.

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Cover image via FB/ Vestene Wong


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