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title: "M’sian Man Says He No Longer Plans To Marry, Now Uses His Money To Pamper Mum & Travel"
url: https://weirdkaya.com/msian-man-says-he-no-longer-plans-to-marry-now-uses-his-money-to-pamper-mum-travel/
date: 2026-09-19
modified: 2026-09-19
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author: "Jann Firdaus"
description: "For many people, getting married and building a family is seen as one of the major milestones of adulthood. However, one Malaysian man shared that he is now in his..."
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  - "mum"
  - "Travel"
  - "wedding"
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# M’sian Man Says He No Longer Plans To Marry, Now Uses His Money To Pamper Mum & Travel

## TL: DR

- **Threads user claims:** A 33-year-old Malaysian man shares on Threads that he no longer plans to marry after cancelling a previous wedding.
- **Wedding arrangement dispute:** Reported by mStar, the man claims his marriage plans fail over hantaran and his partner wanting a big celebration despite his RM800,000 terrace house, RM150,000 car, and RM30,000 savings.
- **Spends on family:** He now uses his savings to support his mother and fund yearly overseas trips while netizens debate marriage expectations below.

##### For many people, getting married and building a family is seen as one of the major milestones of adulthood.

However, one Malaysian man shared that he is now in his 30s without a partner and has no plans to get married after a previous engagement plan did not work out.

According to a post shared on Threads, the 33-year-old man claimed that he currently owns a car worth RM150,000, a terrace house valued at RM800,000 and has RM30,000 in savings.

However, he said his plan to start a family was eventually cancelled after he and his former partner disagreed over their wedding arrangements, reported [mStar.](https://www.mstar.com.my/lokal/viral/2026/09/19/bakal-isteri-desak-nak-majlis-mewah-lelaki-nekad-batalkan-perkahwinan-kini-selesa-hidup-membujang-pilih-bahagiakan-ibu)

## Wanted a simple wedding, but partner wanted a bigger celebration

![A Simple Beginning Wedding Ceremony
](https://weirdkaya.com/wp-content/uploads/A-Simple-Beginning-Wedding-Ceremony.png)For illustration purposes only.

The man claimed that he had previously planned to get married but wanted to keep the wedding simple.

> **Never thought I would cancel my wedding because of hantaran. I promised to provide a comfortable life after marriage, but I only wanted to have a simple ceremony,” he wrote.**

However, he claimed that his former partner disagreed, saying that having a big wedding celebration was a dream for many women.

> **Since that moment, I no longer felt like continuing,” he added.**

## Now spends money on his mother and overseas trips

Following the cancellation of his marriage plans, the man said he now uses the money he had saved to support his mother and fund yearly overseas trips.

![ wk klia terminal ](https://weirdkaya.com/wp-content/uploads/202608-wk-klia-terminal-1-3624.webp)For illustration purposes only. Photo by WeirdKaya

His Threads post later attracted various reactions from netizens, with some discussing the importance of finding a partner with similar expectations when it comes to marriage and finances.

Some commenters said that wedding preferences should be discussed openly between couples before making major commitments.

Others shared their views on the disagreement, with some saying that both parties may have had different expectations of marriage and celebrations.

“*When you’re tempted to compare your blessings with others, your own blessings might start to feel insufficient. Find someone who knows how to appreciate what they have.*”

“*You made the right decision. There is no need to spend excessively on a big wedding. There are still simple women out there.*”

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