Feelings of insecurity and being “left behind” in life can happen to anyone, especially when surrounded by people who appear to be doing better financially or professionally.
This was the situation faced by a man who recently shared his frustrations on Threads after observing how comfortably some of his colleagues were living, seemingly able to spend freely without worrying too much about money.
Colleagues living luxuriously
According to the mStar, the man shares that several of his office mates had purchased the newly released iPhone 17 in cash, while others were already planning to travel overseas twice next year, with each trip estimated to cost around RM20,000.
Watching people around you live like that, it’s easy to feel jealous,” he admitted.
The comparisons soon led him to question his own financial situation and salary. Despite holding an executive position at an oil and gas-related company, he found himself struggling to justify basic home improvements.
I’m still calculating whether I can afford to install kitchen cabinets at home. Sometimes I feel like I’m being short-changed by the company,” he wrote. “Is my salary really that low that I can’t live like them?”
He added that his sense of insecurity deepened after comparing himself to technicians at his workplace, as he was aware of the allowances and overtime payments they received.
This left him feeling conflicted, as his job grade was technically higher, yet his disposable income felt more limited.
“Everyone has different commitments”
His post quickly drew attention online, with many netizens stepping in to offer perspective and advice. Most urged him not to compare his life or finances with others, pointing out that everyone has different commitments, priorities, and financial responsibilities.
Some commenters noted that what appears to be a “comfortable” lifestyle may come with hidden sacrifices, such as minimal savings or long-term financial risks. Others reminded him that priorities vary from person to person.
Some people are willing to spend big on travelling, others prefer to put their money into building a home,” one netizen commented.
