Yesterday, we reported on the tragic passing of Penang-born Tan Kar Ming, who died due to alleged physical abuse by her partner in Perth, Australia.
While the case, which happened last month, has since triggered widespread shock and grief, it also brought unwanted attention for Tan’s family in Malaysia, who have resisted every effort by the media to speak about it.
‘No interviews, please’
Not long after news of Tan’s death hit national headlines, reporters from China Press headed over to her family home in Butterworth and knocked on the door several times, all of which went unanswered.
A relative who lived nearby then approached the reporters and asked their purpose of being there.
When informed by the reporters that they wished to interview Tan’s family, the relative said the latter currently does not wish to be disturbed and would not accept any interviews.
“Tan’s father is in Australia to handle arrangements following her death and the family does not wish to discuss further details of the case with the media for the time being.
They were deeply devastated by the event, especially after news reports about Tan’s passing were published in various newspapers, which made them relive the pain.
“We hope the media can understand how the family is feeling at the moment and give them the necessary privacy and space.”
Summary
Tan was found unresponsive in a house in Taree St in St James at about 8.30pm on Aug 26 and was rushed to Royal Perth Hospital, where she later passed away.
She lives behind three children aged 3, 5, and 7, who will be cared for by her twin sister.
Her partner Younis Qambari, an Afghan national, was subsequently charged with murder and is currently in custody until he appears in court on Sept 16 for the next hearing.
The case caught nationwide attention, including that of Deputy Women, Family and Community Development Minister Lim Hui Ying, who urged victims of domestic violence to speak up and seek help.
“Domestic violence is not a private matter that should be hidden or endured alone. It is a serious form of violence and must never be normalised under any circumstances.
“This is because domestic violence could have profound effects on victims, their children, families and the wider community,” she said as quoted by NST.
