23yo M’sian Pregnant Woman Abandoned By BF After Asking For Marriage, Later Disowned By Her Family

A distressing narrative surfaced on the TwtSecretsMY Twitter page, shared by a 23-year-old Malaysian woman grappling with familial and relational challenges.

Abandoned by Boyfriend after asking for marriage

Pregnant and feeling isolated, she conveyed her sense of abandonment both by her boyfriend, the father of her unborn child, and her family.

In the post, the woman disclosed that her family had distanced themselves from her due to her pregnancy, leaving her to reside with her future in-laws.

In an effort to secure a stable future for her child, she proposed marriage to her boyfriend, only to be met with resistance due to financial concerns.

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She even offered to bear the expenses of their marriage but to no avail.

I don’t want an extravagant wedding ceremony, just the marriage, and that’s it. That’s all. I know even those things cost money because we need to buy rings and so on.

I told him, ‘Let’s get married, and we’ll share the expenses 50-50.’ I’m only thinking about my daughter. That’s it. She needs her father’s love. I understand the situation when one doesn’t have a father’s love in their life. In my heart, I might want to be a single mother, but I can’t do that.”

Discovers boyfriend still keeps images of ex-girlfriend

Besides, she also discovered her boyfriend still keeps nude photos of his ex-girlfriend during pregnancy, casting doubt on his emotional availability and commitment.

This discovery exacerbated her feelings of desperation and loneliness, as she contemplated leaving the child with its father and fleeing the situation.

“Sometimes, I feel like just running away, but I left my daughter with him because I know he can provide for her, not me.

We need to get married by this December, but I don’t have a penny to cover it. My family has abandoned me, leaving me alone. I am extremely sad, with nowhere to turn. I try to think about other people, but it seems like nobody cares about me.”