A woman has taken to social media to express her disappointment and concern after claiming that her husband’s behaviour changed drastically after he started vaping, just eight months into their marriage.
In a Facebook post, the woman shared that she is currently in a long-distance marriage, which has made the situation even more emotionally taxing.
I’m in a long-distance relationship with my husband and we’ve only been married for eight months. He used to be helpful whenever he came home, but now he sleeps most of the time, wakes up for about 30 minutes, then goes back to sleep,” she wrote.
Sleeps excessively and avoids responsibilities
According to the woman, her husband appears to be able to fall asleep anywhere, including on the floor.
His constant sleeping and lack of involvement in daily matters have left her feeling discouraged and anxious about the idea of living together in the future.
She added that while her husband has suggested they move in together next year, his current behaviour has made her feel fed up and uncertain.
He barely helps me at all. He just plays on his phone, sleeps, wakes up to eat, then goes back to sleep again,” she said, adding that the situation has been mentally exhausting for her.
Near-miss incident while driving raises alarm
More worryingly, the woman claimed that they were nearly involved in a road accident after her husband allegedly fell asleep at the wheel while driving home from shopping.
The car almost skidded because he dozed off while driving,” she shared.
She also claimed that her husband has become increasingly dependent on vaping, allegedly finishing two different vape flavours in a single day. According to her, he did not vape previously, but his habit escalated significantly after returning home.
“When I asked whether he was sleepy because of vaping or possibly taking prohibited substances, he got angry,” she said, expressing her frustration and confusion.
Netizens’s comment
Her post sparked widespread discussion online, with some netizens speculating that her husband’s excessive sleepiness could be linked to substance abuse.
“Sis, read this carefully. He’s taking substances. That’s it. No need to overthink or be in denial anymore. Normal people don’t live like that. People who take substances always hope it won’t destroy their lives at first. End of story. Addicts never end up happy with their addiction.”
“Vaping is the reason he’s become like that. Vape, sleep, vape, sleep. That’s how it is. Mushroom effects make the head feel dizzy.”
Some other netizens also urged the woman to give her husband the benefit of the doubt and resolve the issue by talking to him.
“Give him the benefit of the doubt first. Maybe he’s tired from work. Try talking it out, ask him why he’s like that, maybe he’s not getting enough rest. Maybe you don’t know he’s doing two or three jobs just to make a living. Because you’re in a long-distance relationship, you might not know what he’s really going through. He is human too. Of course he’d get angry. Try asking nicely, sis. Don’t be disobedient or accuse him of wrongdoing.”
