Not smoking is often seen as one of the key traits many women look for in a life partner, especially for those who prioritise a healthy lifestyle.
However, one woman recently shared her disappointment after discovering that her husband is a smoker, something she claims was hidden from her throughout their relationship.
Never showed any signs of smoking
According to mStar, her husband never showed any signs of smoking during the time they were dating, engaged, or even in the early stages of getting to know each other.
The couple had been in a long distance relationship, which she believes made it easier for him to conceal the habit.
Sadly, I only found out two months after getting married that my husband is a smoker. Throughout our long distance relationship, he never smoked in front of me.”
She added that she had clearly stated her boundaries from the very beginning.
“Even before the marriage, I already told him that I cannot accept men who smoke or vape,” she shared.
Feels deeply deceived
The revelation became a major source of conflict in their marriage, with the woman admitting she feels deeply deceived.
“He lied to me. He is a smoker. Honestly, I really feel like asking for a divorce. The feeling is very strong, I just haven’t said it out loud yet. I can’t accept this,” she confessed.
She explained that financial hardship would not have been an issue for her.
“Life being difficult is not a problem. I can be patient and work together to earn a living. But this is about smoking and I really can’t accept it,” she said.
