Arguments in a marriage are usually seen as a problem, but for one Malaysian woman on X, the lack of fights has become the problem itself.
The anonymous post, shared on X user @meinmokhtar’s page, went viral after the woman confessed that she is frustrated that her husband never gets angry and always apologises first, no matter what happens.
Too peaceful until it feels unreal
The woman said she has been married for three years and truly loves her husband.
According to her, they have never fought or raised their voices at each other. However, she admitted that the peaceful marriage is starting to stress her out.
She explained that every time a small issue comes up, her husband apologises right away.
Instead of feeling comforted, she feels empty and wishes he would show more emotion, even if it means arguing.
She said she sometimes wishes they could have a heated fight like other couples, even though she knows she should be grateful and does not understand why she feels this way.
Mixed reactions from netizens
The post sparked a wave of reactions, ranging from brutal humour to heartfelt advice. Here are some of the comments, translated:
“Just ask for a divorce and go find an abusive husband then.”
“Do not wish for something like that. Your husband is already good to you. If he raises his voice one day, you will be the one feeling hurt.”
“You are lucky, but you are asking for trouble. Do not make that wish. I am scared that if God grants it, your husband’s personality might change completely and you will not be able to handle it.”
While some netizens found her confession funny, many reminded her that having a gentle and patient partner is something people pray for.
They warned that if her husband ever changed for the worse, she might regret craving “drama” in her marriage.
Here is the post:
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— 🔺meingl🔻 (@meinmokhtar) October 23, 2025
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