He drove a new BMW, lived in a condominium and looked neat whenever he went out. But according to one woman, her former husband’s personal hygiene told a very different story.
The woman said she decided to leave her 35-year-old husband after repeatedly asking him to improve his hygiene, only for things to remain unchanged.
Among her biggest frustrations were his toilet habits and reluctance to shower.
‘After pooping, he’d just spray some tap water’
Describing his toilet habits, the woman claimed he did not clean himself properly after bowel movements.
He doesn’t wash himself properly or use soap after pooping. He just sprays some tap water and puts his boxers straight back on,” she said.
She alleged that his reluctance to shower was another recurring issue, especially on Sundays.
According to her, this was something she had tried to address with him many times. But it all failed, prompting her to leave him altogether.
Allegedly went to work without showering
The woman also claimed that her former husband sometimes headed to the office without taking a shower.
However, she said his clean clothes and perfume meant that others might never have guessed.
If you saw him, he drives a new BMW, lives in a condominium and works at his family’s business office. But because of his poor hygiene, I became disgusted with him.”
She added that she believed a future partner would struggle with the same habits.
Only discovered his habits after living together
According to the woman, these habits only became apparent once they were living under the same roof.
She claimed he had managed to hide them while they were dating, leaving her unaware of what daily life together would be like.
Reflecting on her experience, she urged others to look beyond a potential partner’s appearance.
“My advice is to really get to know your future husband’s habits inside and out while you’re dating. Don’t judge him just because he looks neat and smells good.”
The woman also directed some of her frustration towards her former mother-in-law for not teaching her son good hygiene habits.
However, netizens pushed back against this, arguing that a grown man should take responsibility for his own habits.
Another shared that a person’s habits do not necessarily reflect how the rest of their family lives.
