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‘I Don’t Want A Damaged Wife,’ Says M’sian Man After She Chose C-Section Over Natural Birth

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Becoming parents is supposed to be a beautiful journey, but for one Malaysian woman, the experience has been nothing short of a nightmare.

Recently, a woman shared screenshots of her conversations with her husband, revealing the emotional turmoil she faced due to how her husband treated her for opting to undergo an emergency C-section instead of a natural birth.

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In one of the shocking messages, her husband heartlessly said, “You ruined your body. I don’t want a damaged wife. Why get surgery at your age? I might as well marry someone else, someone who’s still healthy. This is stupid. I don’t want to be with you anymore.”

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The user, known as @flowertersakiti, shared screenshots of her conversation with her husband, providing a glimpse into her painful experience.

In the caption, she expressed the deep hurt she felt after her husband berated her for undergoing an emergency C-section.

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Despite being under anesthesia and in a vulnerable state, she immediately reached for her phone, only to be met with harsh words.

She recounted how she tried to calmly communicate with him, sending multiple messages in an effort to resolve the situation, but was met with coldness and indifference.

She also revealed that she had to face the operating room alone, without her husband by her side, and though time has passed, the emotional pain lingers.

Her husband even accused her and her family of denying him the right to care for their child, despite him not being there to support her during such a critical moment.

Throughout it all, she felt unfairly judged as a mother.

Based on the screenshots, it’s clear that her husband had earlier forbidden her from having a C-section, claiming it would damage her body.

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He even threatened to marry another woman if she went through with it.

She explained that she wanted to have a natural birth but had to follow the doctor’s recommendation for a C-section due to complications.

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Despite being treated so poorly, the woman responded to her husband’s messages with kindness, hoping he would soften and reply.

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Unfortunately, her husband continued to respond indifferently, leaving her feeling abandoned and judged.

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