For 46-year-old Singaporean Suresh Vanaz, Thaipusam is more than just a religious festival—it is a personal act of devotion.
Every year, he carries his younger brother, Gunaseelan, who has cerebral palsy, to Batu Caves as part of his spiritual offering.
To Suresh, this journey is not about the weight of an ornate kavadi but about the love and duty he holds for his brother.
This is my devotion—caring for him and ensuring his happiness. That is my offering,” he told NST.
He also added that Thaipusam allows Gunaseelan to experience the joy of being part of a larger community.
Can’t make it to Batu Caves this year
Although they had planned to visit Batu Caves again this year, logistical challenges led them to celebrate in Singapore instead.
However, Suresh remains dedicated to fulfilling his brother’s dreams, particularly his wish to travel the world.
“Gunaseelan wants to visit Phuket, Europe, and many other places. Recently, I took him to India, which tested my endurance. I had to carry him throughout the 11-day trip.”
By the time we returned, I was completely exhausted, but seeing his happiness made everything worth it,” he shared to the English daily.
Embracing challenges
Growing up, their family faced societal stigma toward disabilities.
Determined to change that perception, Suresh is committed to ensuring his brother lives without limits.
He also said that people used to look down on children like my brother but he just wanted him to experience life like anyone else.
Despite being the sole provider, Suresh remains steadfast in his mission to give Gunaseelan the best life possible.
I hope God grants me the strength and fortune to continue taking him on new journeys,” he added.
