She forgave him once. Then twice. And even after two children together, she thought he’d change.
But instead, the doctor only “prescribed” himself more women.
Now, a Malaysian woman’s Facebook post about a civil divorce case has gone viral after she revealed how her client’s husband — a doctor — was repeatedly caught cheating despite being given multiple chances.
The divorce battle begins
The woman, who works at a law firm, shared that her team represented the wife, while the husband had his own lawyer.
According to her, the wife’s legal team first submitted a 10-page affidavit. In response, the husband’s lawyer sent back over 80 pages of documents and evidence, agreeing to divorce but refusing the wife’s conditions.
At the wife’s request, her lawyers then countered with more than 200 pages, complete with screenshots, photographs, and detailed evidence of the husband’s alleged affairs.
She said if the husband replies again, she’ll submit another 1,000 pages,” the lawyer wrote.
This was when the full story of her marriage started to unfold.
Years of forgiveness
The lawyer recounted that the wife hadn’t rushed into divorce — she had given her husband multiple chances.
- The first time he was caught cheating was while she was giving birth to their first child. After much persuasion and promises, she forgave him on the condition that he wouldn’t do it again.
- A year later, he was caught again. The couple fought, reconciled, and went on to have a second child.
- But history repeated itself. After their second child’s birth, he was exposed yet again.
By then, the wife decided enough was enough. She reached out to the firm, determined to break free.
Evidence too much to stomach
At first, she only cited “lack of compatibility” in her petition, perhaps out of fear or embarrassment. But once the husband tried to defend himself with his own affidavit, she decided to reveal everything.
Unbeknownst to him, the wife had already gathered solid evidence; screenshots, chat logs, and intimate photos, all carefully saved before she proceeded with the divorce.
When we saw the documents and pictures, we honestly felt like vomiting. There were pictures of different women, intimate acts, and WhatsApp requests for nude photos,” the lawyer shared, adding that even her male colleague felt embarrassed reviewing them.
The reality of her husband’s double life soon became clear.
Husband’s double life
Despite being a doctor, the man allegedly spent his days and nights hiring women of various backgrounds; Malays, Chinese, Indians, Filipinas, and even Vietnamese.
He tried to be discreet:
- Deleting all dating apps before coming home.
- Buying a second phone with a separate number and leaving it at the office.
But no matter how many tricks he used, the wife always found out.
“He wasn’t even careful,” the lawyer remarked.
Why many wives stay silent
Reflecting on the case, the lawyer said this wasn’t uncommon.
Many wives, regardless of race or religion, often know what their husbands are up to, but choose silence.
Out of fear of being labelled ungrateful, or because the husband provides financially, wives endure it,” she wrote.
But she stressed that infidelity has no justification in any faith or culture.
Whether husband or wife, of any race or religion, cheating is not taught in any religion. There is no excuse that can cover this wrongdoing. None.”
Her final note
In her post, the lawyer later clarified she blurred out the names of the apps mentioned, saying her intention wasn’t to promote them but to raise awareness.
“I didn’t even know these apps existed until this case. As a wife and mother to both a son and daughter, this is knowledge I cannot ignore. If people misuse it, that’s beyond my control.”
